Today’s bridezilla topic can relate to anyone. This is a gift that was shared very specifically with me by a good friend. This friend explained how so many people go unnoticed simply because they do not standout. Perhaps this contributes to zilla-ish attributes surfacing unnaturally where the otherwise good-nature of an individual leave no such common-place. For example, if someone is consistantly ignored in social settings, they may feel hurt and deal with subsequent pain by acting a little zilla-like instead of bride-like or groom-like inflective to the more idealistic sense. If you’re lost- don’t worry about it -the main point is that we all try to be more inclusive of the wonderful people in this world who don’t readily stand out in a crowd. Perhaps the Savior was one of these persons amidst the Jews in ancient Israel, and if we practice this quality of recognizing people not only for outward or charismatic appearances we can begin contemplating and better understanding the deeper value of the human heart. Cheers – always & wishing you the happiest of days!
Taking the zilla out of Bridezilla and out daily life in general can be quite a challenge. Sometimes we don’t even realize that such an action is necessary. One way to come to an accurate realization of any potential internalized zilla one might face or need to overcome is to practice the unique and valuable art of ‘forgiveness.’ This means that you practice forgiving entirely and that you uphold the other person you are forgiving in respectful regard as an individual you may even admire again. Is this really possible, yes. Is this really necessary, that depends on your goals, yet, the higher you reach the higher you attain. Uh uh, this is a pretty high standard to adhere to. Forgiveness is difficult at times, but it always seems to be that the sooner it comes from the heart in a long-lasting childlike manner, the greater the intrinsic reward of peace and freedom for the giver. Yes, forgiveness is a gift that would be hard to share too often, yet is important to grant to oneself and one’s offenders. Note however, that many individuals confuse forgiveness with supplementing or enabling; where these latter additives can be harmful since they are unnecessary. Often it seems better to trust that God will do the enabling if its really needed, you just do the forgiving, and the setting of your own house/life in order, so that you can assist with adequate resourcefulness and self preservation. One thought that comes to mind is that you are what you feed. Feed the good that is inside you, the generosity, the happiness, the peace, the kindness, the respect for self and others. Do this instead of feeding the zilla, anger and any activities that lead to sorrow and regret. Rather, nourish your life toward high quality communicative results daily – YOU DESERVE IT!!!! If a bridezilla or not could eliminate the zilla you can too. LOL
So what do you get when you mix one Bridezilla with one Groomzilla and they have one Babyzilla? Maybe you’re thinking that this would equal a Familialzilla or Familyzilla, well that could be true. But, you also get some mighty proud Grandzillas. These are grandmazilla and grandpazilla. So with all of these zillas what do you get? Yep- the whole villa-zilla: pronounced villazilla. Ok, you’re right, I left out the pets, catzilla and dogzilla and parakeetzilla. Feel free to remind me if I left anything else out. May your favorite Bridezilla smile at this and share it with the whole villazilla.
“Kindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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Sometimes life gives us relational lemons, or adversities, that when overcome can eventually make some real sweet lemon juice. Forgiveness itself is like this. The harder it is for anyone- yes, even including a Bridezilla -to forgive someone the greater the joy can be when the causation and differences are set aside. Essentially we all have things in life that we can overcome with positivism and genuine gratitude, among other things. This being said: zillas where are you now? Or, Bridezillas where are they now? I think subjects like this are equally relevant for Groomzillas & Bridezillas alike.
“Charitable kindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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Today I’ve been reflecting on the moments of life. Not only bridezilla moments but any moments that are worth remembering. For example, sometimes we say things we don’t really mean when we are angry or tired. Other times we really mean them but shouldn’t have. Then I think how often taking a step back and offering a silent little prayer to Father in Heaven might have kept us from ushering an expository of regretful verbiage. Do you think that Bridezillas- wherever they are now -would also appreciate such thoughts. I remember the reference from childhood that words are like the feathers of a pillow blown in the wind. Easy to give and hard to retract. Please share your thoughts! (Bridezillas Where are They Now?) When we think of statements in this manner we will one day be able to ask ourselves this question: Zilla where are you now? This is because as individuals we have worked hard at life and steadily progressed to a point of eliminating all forms of zilla within us and have instead exemplified heaven’s helping Exemplar. *We look forward to posting your thoughts!!!!*
“Forgiving kindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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What is the value of having a calm peaceful heart filled with kindness, goodness and generosity? How does this relate to newlyweds and marriages in general? How does the word bridezilla relate these two questions? As always, we would love for you to post your thoughts and advice! Cheers- Bridezillaswherearetheynow.com Staff
“Loving kindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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Today’s thought: Any person can have a rough start at lifetime events. This can even or especially include a wedding or marriage, but along the journey we work things out until ‘vwall-ah’ life turns from sad to good, and from good to great. I guess you could say that most everyone has a bit of zilla to work out within themselves. Working out these things can mean bringing out the positive influence of our humanity. For example, one bride or groom might have a tendency to be angered easily. However, that same individual might be exceptionally genuine in all their conversations. By exemplifying this second positive characteristic through recognition and greater use, this greater good can be established that reflects an inward desire for positive outward expressions. These expressions may include genuine kindess, and eventually a complete replacement of anger with a constant peaceful acceptance of self. [Bridezilla or not]
“Peaceful kindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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Well, its been a while since I last added anything to this post- sorry friends, bridezillas, or not. However, I have some great things to discuss in today’s topic. Specifically I’d like to forget about where the bridezillas are now for a moment and consider the simple topic that God never forgets about each of us as individuals. Yes, I know this is valuable information, but the reason it relates is because of how significant this makes each individual person [you included] to the Great Creator of all things, Heavenly Father. My encouragement is that everyone try to remember this and let it influence the way you treat your friends, aquaintances, strangers and even occasional foes. As a wise man once said “Believe in God and believe that He lives.” This simple evidence promotes greater evidence which in turn changes life into an enjoyable fulfillment of value. It helps turn our hearts into a journey filled with experience and kindness for others. Can we even really love our family if we don’t show love for our enemies? Now not to elude the bridezilla material for too long- each one, found or not, can find happiness in showing love for Christ in such a manner. Along with this, sometimes we are our own worst enemies, so, we need to show ourselves that we can still be kind to “number 1.” Here’s another final thought is being kind to God equivalent to being gracious to numero uno? Thanks again readers – have a happier day than ever before!
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Todays Topic of discussion is whether or not Bridezillas in general have influenced you as a wedding planner, or your wedding plans, or with any of your wedding planning assistance in general? Share your stories and Post your comments below:
Today’s extra thought: Why is the value of virtue so great? Why is virtue such a rare and precious medallion to hold safe?
“Respectful kindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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This blog is all about Bridezilla’s, where they are, and how they are doing. Current status, etc… If you’re interested in knowing more, then you and yours have come to the right place to share thoughts and interact with the where are they now fans that visit our bridezilla blogsite- not only for latest updates but also to reflect on the why of how of making a difference. For example, how is it so nice to remember the BZs of our past and see how they are doing. So, please feel free to share your thoughts and visits Bridezillaswherearetheynow.com often.
Oh, another quick thought- there are other topics and posts that might help you ask, answer or help one another with daily life bridezilla related or not questions. Enjoy your time!
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. For example an emphasis on wedding gifts and wedding inspirational thoughts and quotes has been ongoing. We hope you find these interesting and are able to contribute. Some of the stories you share might relate to your own wedding past present or future. For example, how are Bridezilla weddings impacting people to be sociable, courteous, kind, generous and realin their relationships. What are all the positives you can discover?
“Positive thinking andkindness in the face of adversity makes you a winner!”
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